Loving yourself is hard.
As a twenty-something trying to get my degree and propel myself into a future, I sometimes get tripped up in my failures rather than my successes, and those “failures” (if they can even really be considered that) take over my focus, but I know it’s time for change. It’s time to shift my focus from “I don’t know if I can,” and “Maybe later in life I could do…” to “I am successful, and I am capable.”
Being that it is Martin Luther King Jr Day I thought this was an amazing quote to ponder over:
Courage is an inner resolution to go forward despite obstacles.
Cowardice is submissive surrender to circumstances.
Courage breeds creativity; Cowardice represses fear and is mastered by it.
Cowardice asks the question, is it safe?
Expediency ask the question, is it politic?
Vanity asks the question, is it popular?
But, conscience ask the question, is it right? And there comes a time when we must take a position that is neither safe, nor politic, nor popular, but one must take it because it is right.” – Dr. Martin Luther King Jr.
I’ve let self -doubt destroy my 2013. Although I had many fun times and lots of fun memories, I stayed in my comfort zone, like a coward. 2014 is asking me, “What’s next?” and I’m ready to answer.
Courage takes time. It takes thought. It takes a look inward. It’s best to take time to yourself and evaluate your goals. Step away from the outward distractions, the social media, the tv, the “buzz.” Focus on yourself, what is it that you really want out of your life? Is it attainable (and of course it is, anything is to a dreamer and doer). Now, plan plan plan!
Have the courage to pursue your dreams. Do it for yourself, because you’re your biggest cheerleader, and you’re the only one who’s going to pursue these dreams for you. Yes, its’ hard, but I promise it will be worth it.
Just do it for yourself, and nobody else, because sometimes it’s ok to be selfish, and when it comes to shaping your future and reaching your goals, it’s necessary.